Proud of What We Are

 Proud-We are Muslims and We believe that all the things which happen from the side of God. It is good or bad God knows which thing is better for us. For the time being its hurt but after some time we realized that it is good for us.  So we believe only a God. Who knows every thing. It is our duty to do good. Perform our duties by heart and God gives us result. May be it takes time. But it happened. The result will come and we forget all our difficulties which we face during our handwork period.
    Humans need result quickly they do not like to wait. When there wishes not fulfilled they think it is there bad luck. God give them difficulties all the time may be God is angry with them that’s why God does not listen to their prayer. But it is wrong God never leave their peoples.

You are heard

God always near by us that’s why we are Proud. God knows when his wishes come true. Before time nothing is happened. When time come all the worries difficulties and bad luck were go and life is go smoothly. .
   So dont worry about your life some plane make but leave them in God. Don’t think what happened in future believe in God. Work hard for your aims. Walk on the way which God give.

The Path

That path of life reached you in your targets. Obey the principals which give God. Pray five time. Nawaz is the way to talk with Allah. When we pray our soul is in peace. And we satisfied with our lives. And trust the God. All the good things come to our lives and happiness come to our lives. So dont worry be happy . Believe in God. Strong  believe get your lives easy. God give you life how could it happened that he does know your desires. He know all the things. Always thanks to Allah he give us proper personalities. Proper body parts. Make a complete human. Thanks to Allah for giving all the good things.

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Stage Drama Industry in Pakistan

Stage Drama- When I said that I am going to see stage drama. Every one looking shocked. Because today stage is not serious stage. It kidnaped by those peoples who only want to earn money. This stage is for them only the source if income. Its respect and honor nothing is mean to them. They use all those things to make ordnance which is not accept in our society or you can say not liked in our society.

Talented Actors

We have very talented actors who performed in stage. But they worked in compulsion. Because they have to run their houses with the income that they earn from the stage. When these actors performed in other countries they won the stage. And every body liked them. Most of them are very talented. Even though most of them have no professional degrees but have life experienced. They spend life as a experience. In their word we can see the experience. They write and direct a stage drama.

This is not only their fault that they does not write good drama but it is also the fault of ordnance. They want to see these dancers in the stage. Dance is not a bad thing. It is an art. And everybody cant learn it. It is selected person who learn teach and performed it. Unfortunately we have not many dance academies. We have few peoples who take this art seriously. Rear names we have.

Stage Dancers in Pakistan

So in this condition stage dancers destroyed the art of dance. They used stage for destroy the art of dance. And now the picture is not clear. Most of the people hates the word dance and also does not like dancers. Serious theater changed in stage drama. Ajo ka theater Fiaz Ahmed theater has disappeared now only stage drams appear where the message of art disappear. Only foolish dialogues and foolish sight exist.

Most of audience uneducated and in depression. They fed-up with his daily routine. So they come and liked that foolish comedy which performed by actors. And liked that songs and dance performance. They only want to enjoy no matter what is he listen and see is right or wrong. That’s why the audience of stage dramas are not educated. Families does not like to came for see the stage dramas.

Real Comedy of Stages

We have many respectful name in comedy. They spend their whole life to perform like

  1. Rangeela
  2. Nanha
  3. Munver Zareef Lahri
  4. Ali Ijaz etc. They are real comedian. They are not only performed in cinema screen but also performed in theater. We also have serious theaters but few.

These theaters work in under the difficult condition. Because they have not enough ordnance for service. They cant afford their own expenditures. They cant pay actors so their work is in limited. In other the professional actors of stage that worked now a days earn well. They can afford all their expense. They performed in many dramas and these dramas have no story and no subject. Only vulgarity is seen.

Money by Hook and Crook

No dialogue no plot no theme. But only make money by hook and crock. This is our society ‘s fault to stop the serious theater. The sensor board is exist but they allow all the things because they also need money. In other words the theater the drama the comedy is that things which we lost This is not art this is only the art of money.

Increasing income not the increasing position. Govt is also responsible. The government does not promote art. They have no policies about the art and actors not only stage or theater but all kind of entertainment industries. That’s why we failed. Nobody take it serious and nobody adopt this industry. If this happened all the time the theater is going to be end. And we destroy it.

Our Responsibilities

So we have to be recognized our responsibilities. Not only blame the actors also understand the problems of them . and then make the policies. We have to invite the serious audience and give them confidence that they go to see drams with their families without any hesitation. It is important for our culture. Many peoples belong to this industry. They have right to earn Make them confident to work hard to achieve the goals and the government is responsible for all its right. Then we change the environment.

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A Brief Explanation of Women Rights.

Women rights – Women have very difficult life. Even she belong to developed country or un developed country. Even though she educated or uneducated. In different society her difficulties are difficult. A woman who is house wife had different difficulties. And the woman who is doing her job have different. In our society woman even does not recognized by her self.

Recognition

She always need recognition of their father husband and then family. Women is always under control of others who is her father brother husband and then son. She does not have the right of speech and can’t express her feelings her personality. Life is totally depended. She struggled all her life. Although the house stand in her weak shoulder.

A house wife who has no position in society. She get up early in the morning . When she awake many responsibilities ready for her. She look after her children her husband and her house. First of all she go to kitchen make breakfast. Then ready the children for school and ready her husband for job. Then neat and clean the house. Wash clothes wash bathrooms and do many other work. It is her duty to make meal. It is her duty to do all the work which belong to home.

Even she has no time for her self and if she is also working lady then his duties are double. She have to look after house along with her job. It is her duty to look after children both house not his husband duty. The man only work out side. When he come back home from his job he is tired he need rest but woman had not no right to tired she does need rest. So she full fill her job along with the responsibilities of her home. It is her duty to face relatives. If they visit then entertain them. Not her husband duty.

Women Rights in Islam

We are Muslims and in Islam women have many rights even legally she has many right but she does know about her rights. She has no awareness about her right. And no body tell her about it. Because our society is male dominating society. Men command and women listen. If she replied this is very bad thing in our society. In villages the women have more versed position. She performed in house as well as in fields. Take care her house and also take care animals. It is her duty to take care cows and take milk from the cows, wash the animals and eat them. She provide all the things which her house need.

Women Rights in Society

In our society all rights disappear when a woman need. Today many woman take education. They are doctors lawyers piolets and work in armed forces. But their is some thing missing in their lives. Few no of women satisfied their lives. Most of the women disturbed. They cant expressed their feelings. Women work hard all their lives but not doing a single thing for her selves. They cant stand for their rights. 

Woman always spend her life for others. Without leave no promotion and no increment. She worked and worked. A little appreciation make her happy. But not body appreciate her even her parents. Their parents give more attention to their son. Give him mote opportunities then her daughter. If the son does not want to study but the parents take admission in high standard school give them more facilities then girl.

Even the son is not intelligent but he has right to study in good school in good circumstances. She admit in normal institutes. Take education in behalf of her intelligence. More of the girls loose all her rights of life. They accept that they are lower position citizens of house and country. And all the life they only perform their duties. And after death even in her grave her name is not important wife of that or that written .

Heritage

In Islam the write of heritage given to the daughters. But nobody give her and she has no awareness about the right that’s why she does not take stand for it. It is the duty of our government to teach and give awareness of our women in our society. Start regulations for the rights of women. Women are the big part of society. They performed in all intuitions. Women are in politics even in rulers areas they stand for elections and select. They performed in parliament. And doing good jobs in all professions. So it is necessary.

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Youm-e-Ashura 10- Muharram 2020 in Pakistan

Muharram is the first month Islamic year. It also called month of Hazun. In Early days of Islam came into being wars are banned in some months. Muharram is also include in them. But in this month Muslims killed the grandson of Hazrat Muhammed Peace be Upon Him with his friends and family. Only his one son Imam Sajad is live because he was very ill and not fight with the forces of Yazeed. His sisters daughter wife and other women go to in the prison of Yazeed.

  Who is Yazid?


          Yazid’s grandfather name Abu Sufiyan his father name is Ameer Mavia. His grandmother name is Hinda. Hinda eat the heart of Hazrat Hamza who is the uncle of Hazrat Muhammed Peace be Upon Him in one battle. Mavia his father was so called khalif in that time. He is against Hazret Ali  a.s.  After the death of Hazret Ali a.s he  came  kalif with planning. Hazret Imam Hussan and Mavia had agreement.

Acceptance of Imam Hassan A.S

Imam hassan accept his govt. because he does not want battle. Mavia agree that after his death Imam Hussain make Khalif. bit he forget every cause of agreement and made his son Yazeed khalif. Yazeed is a bad man. He is Muslim but do all the things which was not liked by Islam . He drink he made law that you can married with your sister. This is not acceptable. He was rude and cunning man.

He said Hazrat Imam Hassain to obey him and do bait on his hand. But Imam Hussain does not accept. He said to yazeed I  am not like you and i can not bait on your hand.  Yazid want that Hazrat Imam Hassan should bait. Yazid was very merciless.  He decided to kill Imam Hussain as for making his desires. Yazid killed Imam Hussain but not win. He failed with all his plainings. Nobody wants take his name with their name. Nobody liked him. He finished with his whole family.

After Death – Muharram

Even after his death his son (his son name is also Mavia) does not take the position of calif He said to his father from your throne i smell the blod of Hussain. I dont want to make caif and he leave the merciness yazeed. He had painfull death which he deserve. His grave is full of rubish. His grave is the sighn of his badness. Yazeed go to hell Inshallah.God never forget him. We hate yazeed.

   Hazrat Imam Hussain A.S



       Hazrat Imam Husain is the grand son of Hazrat Muhammad Peace be Upon him. His grand gather name is Abu Talab he was the care taker and uncle of Hazret Muhammed pbuh and father name is Hazret Ali as. Mother name is Hazret bibi Fatima.

Brother  name is Hazret Imam Hassan as. He grow in the supervision of these great great and noble personalities. Hazret Imam Hassan as and Hazret Imam Hussain as  are the prince of Jannat. Their family is owner of Jannat. This is Quran said  


  Karbala
         

Imam Hussain as go to perform Haj with his family and friends. Women and children are with him. Total 72 people with him . Yazid does not allow them to perform Haj. Imam Hussain as changed their Haj into Umrah. After performing Umrah they start travelling to Kufa because people of Kufa write many letters to Imam Hussain as thar please come to kufa. When they reached Iraq one place where the horses stoped. Imam asked peoples what place is it? They said the name this place is Ninawa also people said this place kurbla. Imam purchase this place and stay their.

River frat float near this place. After few days he saw the army of Yazid which include 1000 man came here and made camp there. Imam welcomed them and give them and their horses water and meal. Army commander Hur said Imam that he want to kill him. Yazid orderd them.

Smile

Muharram – Imam smile and said to his companions Yazid killed him. Imam Hussain said his friends to leave him. But all refused. Even the night of Ashura Imam off the light and said them go. But nobody leave. They loved him. They said our souls are for you. We always with you and we never leaves you alone in this situation . Imam know the situation very well because Hazret Muhammed pbuh tell Althing’s about it. They know Yazid can not do mercy in his family
Yazi was merciless. He fight his family and friends one by one mattered. Hazret Abbas Hazrat Ali Akbar son of Imam Hazret Ali Asger a seven month old babby son of Imam Hussain. Hazret Qasim son of Imam Hassan nephew of Imam Hussain fourteen years boy. Hur leave the Yazid and he go with Imam and morterd by yazeedi force.

Bravery

Habbib was an old man fight very bravely. At the Imam give all his dears in the way of Islam and for Allah. He was alone to go for battle. His sister Bibi Zainab helped him to ready for battle and helped him to sit in zuljana. He go for battle. He fight very bravely but at aser time a voice came to him Ai Hussain stop fight and pray Imam leave zuljina and go into sajda. Yazeedi run and used all things which gave pain to Imam shimmer came to Imam and cut his neck with knife. He stand his head into naiza.

Imam perform quran in the naiza. Yazeedi burn the tents. And prisoned all the bibies. Karbla gave new birth to Islam in Muharram. Hussain live for ever he save Islam he save qulma. He save the Muslims. Hussain live in our hearts. We in muharum performed azadaari. It continuously stand for ever Inshallah. After us our childes stand for Hussain. And then their childes. Azadari is in our blood.

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Life – Happy Married Life in 2020

Happy married life – How could you make your married life happy. What are the rules. Nobody say these are the perfect rules and regulation  of perfect married life. Life is not a subject that every one learn same. Every human have their own desires and different needs. But first rule of happiness is love. Then confidence to each other. If we have these two qualities we make our lives happy.

Young life


   When we married we are young. We have  no experience of life. We spend time very happily. Honeymoon time left and we are in practical life. This phase of time turned our lives in practical stage of life.

Difficulties & Responsibilities.

Many difficulties stand. Responsibilities waiting to our lives. Home office responsibilities and our desires make us uncomfortable this condition love go back in where. And first thinking for each other is you are changed. No we are not changed but our lives changed and it is on us how we adjust. Then we come parents & wife’s responsibility increase.

She take care her child and her house to. She does not give much attention to her husband and mostly husbands don’t understand this. They start searching for other. Only for friendship or we can say flirt. When this relation come to his wife knowledge confidence go back in where. These are the most common facts for unhappy married life.

Understandings

If we understand the common problems of each other it could not happened. Woman do not like to share her husband to anyone. It is very big shock for her that husband interested in other woman. Now in this stage clashes start. Both are not want to destroy their relation. But both are not understand. If they both realize each other problems and helped to each other this situation is not happened

So third rule to understand each other. Some couples share their problem with others. Others  means their parents friends and family friends. This is their big mistake. Your problem is yours. Nobody understand . every body look your problem by their own way. And they also guide you in their way of thinking.

May be the solution given by your friend or any other is not suitable in your condition. And may somebody guide you in wrong way. May be somebody do not want you to happy in your home. So dont tell any body to your personal relations and problems. Dialogue with each other and get solution. This is another rule of happy life

Respect


    Respect your partners parents and family. If you cant do this your husband hidden the problems from you which belong to his family. And some time this thing hurt you. You told your husband by your act that he can believe you in all the matters of his family. If you do respect much respect given to your self

Anniversaries


    Remember the anniversaries and give gift to each other. Take care of each other. That increase love in your married life. Some time such little action make you happy. Let worries out of your lives. Celebrate all the movements. Care each other desires or needs. Give space to each other. Never try to command each others. Let your husband go to his friends gathering. Make him happy. Some time change of atmosphere is changed the thinking. Be positive with your partner.

Blame Game

Dont blame each other. Difficulties came in life but it does not mean that we blame each other that this happened of you. If you do this this cant happened. Not this is not the way. Face the difficulties together. Let it out to your lives. Of you stand for each other nobody defeat you. This is the power given by God to husband wives.
      Your family is your future. So dont argue to each other and blame each others in front of your gamily. You are the hero of your family. Solve your problems in room.

Not in front of your family. Apologies your mistakes. Give valuable time to your partner and your family. Discussed things related your house with your family. Understand your family. Make your selves reliable for family. This is the key of happy married life.
    This is my opinion it is up to you how can you used this in your lives. Pray for others and yourselves. Always be happy.

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Cause of Broken Engagements in Pakistan

Broken – This year in our family three engagements broken. These three couples fall in love with each other. Engaged. Whole family came in function with gifts. Those who came make new dresses take new shoes and if they have children obviously they are ready too and spend a handsome amount to join the engagement function. Give them 2000 each to the couples. . But it fit for the whole situation. Maximum after one or one and half year they understand that they are not suitable for each other so they broken engagement. Finish. Now they are in search of another partner.

Love them again?

Who love them and again they spend our money in their engagements. It is my humble request for those people 👏Please
Dont do this to us we cant attend your ceremonies again and again. Please do what do you want to do in behalf of your self not engaged us. We cant give you money again and again we cant spend a-lot money in your so called engagements.

No Tolerance


   So guys do you think why they do this because they have no tolerance. When they engage a-lot acceptations have. They are always talk every thing they discussed. And their relation is not strong that time. They said they love each other but their is no love. Only affiliation. Even they can not believe to each other. Days gone they talk met without any permanent relation and result is that after few days they felt no decision is wrong so let the lover go in hell.

A new Search

Now Search for new lover. What happened to our young ones. Please be serious for this serious relation. Do not think that it is fun. In our society nobody blame boys but girls are always wrong in the eyes of our so called society. It is necessary to educate the girls. Engagement is not the legal relation. Dont trust any one. Do not spend time. Make distance an honorable
Relation make life happy. It is very difficult for parents to face this situation. Family members asked them very bitter questions and members enjoyed the situation

Suffering


    They don’t think about the feeling of suffered family. They gossips in calls and meetings. Society do not forget any thing. So when you are in relation think carefully and be serious. This is not childhood game. This is serious. Make relation with one and make it strong. Think about your parents. They suffered much in whole situation. Tolerance is good quality. In that time you think with your heart not mined. And every thing go in wrong way. After engagement you are not husband wives you are just fiancé.

This is very weak relation. So do it with your brain not heart. Dont think only for your self think for others too. Be serious. Not to do again and again. This is not game. This is life. And you always close one chapter of life quickly and go for others. Past always with your life. And some time past destroys the present. Be careful for your future life. Make good past for healthy life.

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What is Life ? – Major Points

What is life. Is this the name of happiness. Struggle bitterness etc.… What is this? When a baby born. He cry and doctors said he is perfect because it is necessary for new born to weep. Then parents are happy for baby. Then he again cry parents understand that baby cry for milk he is hungry.

First Lesson

Then first lesson we take from life spoke for your need. Baby slowly grow now he cry but not only for hunger but also his needs. Need to change pamper need to give medicines for pain. When he grow he can talk and walk he can run. Then his needs change. His requirement changes.

Demands

His demands change. Now he want toys for playing and if the parents do not give it they cry and insist. After childhood he grow young. Now the meanings of life change. His dreams always in his eyes.

Good Education

He want every thing Good education lavish life. After completed education. He take first step in practice life. Now the meaning of life totally changed. He want good job for good life. He realized the important of money.

Earnings

He want to earn money. Some time he cant. And some time he can. When he win his mood is full of joy. He think he conquered every task. Good job beautiful or handsome life partner and all the necessities of life. And if he looser. The meaning of living totally changed. He think all the humans of this word want to defeat him. He run after the money. But he cant do any thing .
    It means life is not equal for every one. Someone get every thing from it and someone get nothing. Someone win and someone looser.

It is not easy

Life is not the bed of flowers & it’s war. Yes it’s also the beautiful gift of God. We change our lives if we think what we have is enough for us . For more we work hard. Hard working never failed. After some time we achieved our goals and it become easier. When we only think against it, we cant achieve any thing. So love your lives. Life love you. Your lives give you many happiness.

A good quality


    The message is that good thinking is very good quality. It change all your community. Happiness is around you but you cant feel it. Because thoughts take you to that world in that you think. Good or bad it depends on you. Control your mind control your heart. You win

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Situation of Transgenders in Pakistan 2020 – Julie

     Transgenders of Pakistan – God made this earth and created all the creature. Around us beautiful birds animals plants and so many beautiful creatures exist. In all the creatures humans are noble. We consider humans only man and woman. But transgender also created by God. They are also human. We believe in God and this is made by God.

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They are not completely man or woman they are in middle. They are born in normal way and in normal couples. Nobody know God will. Doctors said these children looks normal when born . When they grow they realize that if she is girl she has physical appearances as a girl but internally she feel that she is man. Just like this happened to boys.

Our Society

In our society parents feel shamed and not approach the doctor. The result is that transgender appear and his or her whole life become hell. Nobody except them. No education no job no rights no parents. Even the patents who gave them birth not own them. Their community see all the difficulties in their life because they have no job they live under the supervision of big transgender called guru.

Guru – Transgenders of Pakistan

When guru know that in this house born a transgender he takes the child. If parents did not agree he kidnaped the children. Transgender never leave the children if they know that belong to them. Most of the parents give them easily. Guru is like mother. He or she responsible to give all facilities to their Chaila. Guru teach them how to dance and performance.

Earnings

Mostly  they earn money with dance in the ceremonies of marriages and new born babies home. They stand with heavy makeup in signals, beg and entertain the peoples. WIth no aims of life no home when they young earn money with entertainment and other activities but then they old they have nothing to do. They even can’t fulfill their needs at the end they go to death. They always live miserable life.

History with Mughals


      In the history The Mughals gave them respect they give them job in their Herms. They freely moved all places. The wives of Mughal take their services freely. When British came to India they stop all the things. In those days transgender’s loss their rights and positions.

In 1947 when Pakistan came into being nobody think about them . Even they have no identity card. Time goes and people aware about their problems. Govt take action. First step to made their id cards If they have more qualities or man they made man’s identity card and of they have woman’s they have woman identity card. Another problem is that if they are sick and go to hospital in which row they stand.

The rule of ID Card

Then the rule of identity card follow. Now they have right of vote. Law helped them. These are the facilities give them by Govt. But unfortunately these people did not know about their rights mostly. Now days their NGOs work for their rights. Many things changed. They got jobs. Many of them take education . but they are rare Most of them stand their where they stand in past.

Who’s responsible?

Our society is responsible for that. The parents have to know that not blame them . they born like that not their own will. They have never the right of heritage. But now the Govt give them the right of heritage according to law of heritage. Better thongs happened with the time.

Their societies worked for the rights of them and these societies are ran by transgender. We have to learn that no human being is less then pother human. They are less then by their appearances but they have also a mind. And brilliant mid. They thought they have skills. Dont waste them. They have heart. Dont hurt them . Motivate them they can take part in all the task of life. God made them. They are humans. Treat them like human.

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