Happy married life – How could you make your married life happy. What are the rules. Nobody say these are the perfect rules and regulation of perfect married life. Life is not a subject that every one learn same. Every human have their own desires and different needs. But first rule of happiness is love. Then confidence to each other. If we have these two qualities we make our lives happy.
When we married we are young. We have no experience of life. We spend time very happily. Honeymoon time left and we are in practical life. This phase of time turned our lives in practical stage of life.
Difficulties & Responsibilities.
Many difficulties stand. Responsibilities waiting to our lives. Home office responsibilities and our desires make us uncomfortable this condition love go back in where. And first thinking for each other is you are changed. No we are not changed but our lives changed and it is on us how we adjust. Then we come parents & wife’s responsibility increase.
She take care her child and her house to. She does not give much attention to her husband and mostly husbands don’t understand this. They start searching for other. Only for friendship or we can say flirt. When this relation come to his wife knowledge confidence go back in where. These are the most common facts for unhappy married life.
If we understand the common problems of each other it could not happened. Woman do not like to share her husband to anyone. It is very big shock for her that husband interested in other woman. Now in this stage clashes start. Both are not want to destroy their relation. But both are not understand. If they both realize each other problems and helped to each other this situation is not happened
So third rule to understand each other. Some couples share their problem with others. Others means their parents friends and family friends. This is their big mistake. Your problem is yours. Nobody understand . every body look your problem by their own way. And they also guide you in their way of thinking.
May be the solution given by your friend or any other is not suitable in your condition. And may somebody guide you in wrong way. May be somebody do not want you to happy in your home. So dont tell any body to your personal relations and problems. Dialogue with each other and get solution. This is another rule of happy life
Respect your partners parents and family. If you cant do this your husband hidden the problems from you which belong to his family. And some time this thing hurt you. You told your husband by your act that he can believe you in all the matters of his family. If you do respect much respect given to your self
Remember the anniversaries and give gift to each other. Take care of each other. That increase love in your married life. Some time such little action make you happy. Let worries out of your lives. Celebrate all the movements. Care each other desires or needs. Give space to each other. Never try to command each others. Let your husband go to his friends gathering. Make him happy. Some time change of atmosphere is changed the thinking. Be positive with your partner.
Dont blame each other. Difficulties came in life but it does not mean that we blame each other that this happened of you. If you do this this cant happened. Not this is not the way. Face the difficulties together. Let it out to your lives. Of you stand for each other nobody defeat you. This is the power given by God to husband wives.
Your family is your future. So dont argue to each other and blame each others in front of your gamily. You are the hero of your family. Solve your problems in room.
Not in front of your family. Apologies your mistakes. Give valuable time to your partner and your family. Discussed things related your house with your family. Understand your family. Make your selves reliable for family. This is the key of happy married life.
This is my opinion it is up to you how can you used this in your lives. Pray for others and yourselves. Always be happy.